So, you're gonna code the whole thing, do the servers and work for sweat equity...
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If they balk, suggest that they find another code monkey while you find another biz monkey and let the market decide who ends up with the bananas.
Still, I think the outcome proves that they're not ready or not willing to go through the necessary steps to spin up a startup.
When starting out the business or marketing types don't bring much value unless they actually have $ to pump into the start up.
The key point here is that there are just as many lousy business people as there are lousy programmers. Often programmers don't know what to look for in a business guy, and end up with one of the lousy ones that are full of hot air and no substance. This goes the other way as well which is why a lot of business types end up with lousy programmers in their startup.
Being able to bridge the gap and walk both roads is worth more than gold.
I know it's new, but it's definitely worth investigating.
Short of being $deity, I don't know how you expect to guarantee you get delivery.
Anti-dillution is there to prevent unscrupulous partners from buying tons of equity (issuing new shares) at absurdly low prices just to dilute you.
I wouldn't hire anybody who wasn't willing to vest their stock.
The first time, they offered equity that was barely in the single digit range ;-) Neither of the other two founders are technical people, and they can't afford to hire someone, so I found this pretty laughable.
They came back with a much higher percentage, but they wouldn't agree to me getting the same vesting arrangement that they were getting / would get in a future round.
So far, they've not really gone anywhere since I walked.