Is Electron That Bad?

I've read every possible thread here and in Reddit regarding Electron. I'm perfectly aware of the drawbacks and reasons people hate Electron. But nevertheless lets bring this topic one more time and this time try to focus on a real example (mine) rather than hypothetical discussion.

I have an idea for an application. It a desktop application. So I'm not porting it from web app nor I plan to make it a web app any time in the future. It being a desktop app is my first selling point.

My second selling point is it being as snappy and as productive as possible. Therefore I try to focus much on keyboard shortcuts, intuitive UI/UX (even though its incredibly hard for me since I'm a developer and not UI/UX engineer).

I'm perfectly aware of proper separation between business logic and presentation layer, know how to use FFI, IPC and other methods to call from UI to a shared BL.

And last but not least - I'm a solo developer. With 0$ funding. Doing this in my free time and eager to make money from it and reach as bigger audience as possible.

Now, given all that, lets try to evaluate my options.

1) Non native cross platform frameworks. This includes QT, JavaFX/Swing, Flutter and others. While they are probably more snappier than Electron apps, you can't really call them native. A lot of the criticism of Electron in terms of UI/UX, can be directed at those as well.

2) Native. This means I need to develop at least 2 different UIs to capture 98% of the market, and being a former Linux user and understanding the struggle of lack of good apps in Linux, I can't ignore that platform. So 3 times the development time, 3 times the bug fixes, 3 times the support.

3) Electron. We all know this one.

While I agree that big companies like Slack, Microsoft or Spotify can (and should) invest money in proper app development for each platform; solo developers like me, rarely have the luxury to do so. So I'm left with either choosing one platform to focus on (in my case its Mac since I'm a Mac user) and ignoring all others (at least for now) or settle on semi-native solutions.

I'm a perfectionist and I have a vision. But because I'm a power user, doesn't mean everybody else is like me. So to all the people who say that Electron is not native and breaks their UI/UX - is this really an issue among non power users, or is it just us, developers, being frustrated (and I share this frustration) over minor issues like keyboard shortcuts or lack of native Mac text fields?