Imagine explaining this to a dirt poor Hatian:
"You will have unimaginable wealth, but sometimes you have to sit in a meeting and do nothing. It's really hard"
Imagine explaining this to a dirt poor Hatian:
"You will have unimaginable wealth, but sometimes you have to sit in a meeting and do nothing. It's really hard"
I don't know why you think the average tenure across FAANGs is 2 years but it no doubt varies heavily by company. As another comment mentioned, Google has notoriously good WLB, and any individual team will be more predictive than the company as a whole. You'll hear plenty of "first-hand accounts" of high-pressure work environments because hundreds of thousands of engineers work at those companies!
Everyone desires self actualization, and that is different for each person. If you are highly creative and technically competent, then yes, endless meetings are a detriment to that goal. A starving Hatian doesn't negate that.