May I ask where you are living and how you support yourself? No personal details, of course.
While I agree that Europe is generally better than US and China in this respect, your salary excludes your anecdote from supporting this notion (by your own definition).
Doesn't getting into any of the above positions require immense dedication to your craft, to the point of intertwining private and professional live?
funny enough you somewhat hit the nail on the head of the majority of my career so far. work life balance varies though. definitely not as bad as amazon or netflix, but not as chill as making crud apps all day (if those jobs even still exist, please let me know where)