If you're in your 20s or 30s, 2M is probably not "retire tomorrow" money, but it would probably let you retire very early if you managed it and made smart investments with it. Maybe I'm wrong but I don't think many ICs are getting even 50k from startup equity, nevermind 2M.
20M is "retire tomorrow" money for sure. And definitely workers do not get that kind of money from startup equity.
Most of what I hear now is companies giving fake "shares" that are ostensibly tied to the value of the company but are not actually shares and do not represent any ownership. If they do give shares it's not enough to pay out big, and they get diluted repeatedly over time.
Yep. It's a thing unfortunately: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phantom_stock