1. I'm wrong and OCaml's community is great OR
2. The parent doesn't find the OCaml community to be toxic because he's attracted to toxic communities
I specifically didn't say that the parent was toxic, although I think his comments (including his flagged nationalist comment) speak for themselves.
> You can take this slimy behavior elsewhere
You created an account just to accost me. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I haven't interacted with the ocaml community enough to form any opinion, but honestly "the toxic community hypothesis", as you put it, is intellectual garbage.
With the same reasoning, one could argue that yours is a textbook example of the "overly sensible guy hypothesis", which states that only unreasonably sensible people would complain about communities rather than adapt.
It's pretty obvious that toxic communities do exist, and the "overly sensible guy hypothesis" is nonsensical, but your demeanor is implying that the user you were responding to is himself toxic, which I don't find at all reasonable.