That proxy would still need to do kTLS to reduce the required memory bandwidth to something the system can manage, and then you're at roughly the same place. The storage nodes would likely still have kTLS capable NICs because those are good 2x100G NICs anyway. It would be easier to NUMA align the load though, so there might be some benefit there. With the right control software, the proxy could pick an origin connection that was NUMA aligned with the client connection on the proxy and the storage on the origin. That's almost definitely not worth doubling the node count for though, even if proxy nodes don't need storage so they're probably significantly less expensive than flash storage nodes.
I'd assume TLS is used in large part for privacy reasons (so ISPs can't sell info on what shows are popular)