So, could Linux be tweaked and made as performant for _this_ use case. I expect so. The question to be answered is _why_.
Do you have any additional references around this? I'm aware that most rarely used functionality is often broken and therefore usually don't recommend people to use it, but would like to learn about kTLS in particular. I think for Linux OpenSSL 3 now added support for it in userspace. But there's also the kernel components as well as drivers - all of them could have their set of issues.
Well, the printers wouldn't pair with the new APs, certain laptops with fruit logos would intermittently drop connection, and so on.
I probably will never use that brand again, even though they escalated and promised patches quickly - within 6 hours they had found the issue and we're working on fixing it, but the damage to my reputation was already done.
Since then I've always demanded to be able to test any new idea/kit/service for at least a week or two just to see if I can break it.