Perhaps the most egregious is your position on black shadows being the best and physically most realistic color to blend with, when in reality pure black doesn't exist in nature almost at all, it's just how our brains process things and if you actually use pure black then things will look subtly wrong--I know because I used to do that and learning to stay away from black where possible after taking a basic design course was one of the things that best improved the feel of my designs. Like, there's decades of research in the arts, sciences, and design community about this! It works for a reason.
For the sake of brevity, I'll leave this blog post here that explains it better and more in depth: https://ianstormtaylor.com/design-tip-never-use-black/