I think you might have misread my comment? I'm saying
DO NOT do those things (discord or GH issues, etc)
> 'yes' open-source projects are subject to digital social conformity like so many things.
I whole-heartedly disagree. Maybe what's missing from the internet these days is the backbone to be clear about your own boundaries, but you absolutely do not owe anyone (who is not paying you) support or a place to file issues against your codebase that they don't also maintain.
You are not required to conform to anything you see on the internet (thankfully). This has more to do with your own motivations and goals. If you're making a F/OSS codebase to further your own ambition, then do whatever you think makes sense to get there and good luck.
If I stumble across some brilliant F/OSS work done by someone else for completely free and then released to me for completely free, I have already gained. They owe me nothing past that, and they never owed me anything to begin with.
> 'like so many things': Just like how a Twitter account with at least 5 digit follower count has become a mandatory for a solopreneur's SaaS product to survive especially more so if the said solopreneur doesn't have other prior networks.
Life for entrepreneurs is difficult and risk-laden, and that's why a lot of people don't become entrepreneurs. That fact does not mean the rest of the F/OSS world has to live like solopreneurs.
If you are making a product then it's your perogative to do what makes you successful (if that currently means trying build a "community" then so be it) -- that's your problem. If some person wants to just write software and make it open source so others can see it but doesn't want to maintain a community then that's their own perogative.