The limit for your startup's success is more likely to be your ability to acquire and keep users. After that, it might be your engineer's velocity - their ability to keep up with the pace of change as you learn what your users _actually_ need.
The performance of your backend can be very low on your priority list.
My experience there comes from working at Twitch. The entire video platform's backend was in Python for a long, long time - at least 5 years before some components moved to Go, piece-by-piece. The Python stuck around for over a decade in some fashion.
There are exceptions depending on what your startup does - if your fundamental _product_ depends upon serving millions of concurrent requests quickly on a really frugal budget, you probably already know that.