This is clearly false. White men are not a unitary group. Large numbers of them are deeply underprivileged.
Denying underprivileged people support because of their race is racist. This still happens to black people too and that is also racism.
Adding more racism is not a way to end racism.
> they shouldn't receive specific support reserved for folks with different obstacles.
What about the men who have obstacles? Should they not receive support for the obstacles they do have?
> I dislike excuses around "poor me"s from folks that lack perspective on how they have it better,
Where is anyone here making such excuses? I think that is in your imagination.
> And not all white dudes feel sorry for themselves and blame "society", or college, or women, or other skin colors, or etc...
Where is anyone talking about white dudes feeling sorry for themselves or blaming women or other skin colors except you?