I do understand the point you're trying to make: local autonomy is superior to cloud access mediated by a private commercial entity.
However at this time, we may have a counterintuitive situation where API access is more "democratic" than downloading a huge model.
Based on various reports[1], the GPT-3 model was trained on ~45 terabytes of text corpus (Wikipedia + Web Common Crawl + book texts, etc) and the final runtime model (175 billion parameters) requires ~350 gigabytes of RAM. In that case, the model size is ~1% of the training set.
So "democractize" depends on how ambitious the user is. If you want to use a very large 350GB RAM model, the cloud model with API will be more accessible by the masses than running on local hardware. Last time I looked, an Intel Xeon motherboard has max ram of 128GB so scaling up to 350GB RAM is not going to be cheap or trivial to build.
Let's further extrapolate to a future hypothetical GPT-4 using ~10x multiplier: train on 450 terabytes of text with a model requiring 3.5 terabytes of RAM. How do we make that future huge model accessible to the masses? Probably via a cloud API. Unfortunately, there's an unavoidable hardware capital expense barrier there.