Ruby and Python are close cousins in many ways, and if I'm being totally honest it's hard to justify why they both need to exist when they serve such similar "general purpose scripting language" use cases with similar performance profiles. But when you get beneath the surface they have fairly different aesthetics and ergonomics, and that's the biggest thing that shifts developers toward or away from one or the other. As you described one just "clicked" for you, I think many developers feel that way about one of the two languages, but not both.
The coolest thing about Ruby is that the language paradigm is very internally consistent - everything, absolutely everything, is just objects and methods. The language has very few core constructs, but they can be composed together very fluidly to create all kinds of rich abstractions. People who dislike Ruby generally dislike this specific aspect -- it tempts programmers sitting atop mount stupid to go nuts with meta programming and try to make "magical" code when it isn't called for, and that's annoying to deal with on a team.
By comparison, in Python there are multiple paradigms and you need to learn where they apply. Why are things like `map` and `len` global functions, and why shouldn't we just call `__len__` on that object ourselves? Why do some functions for list processing take a list first and then a lambda, and some do it the other way? Why do you have to define self as the first argument for methods but you then just ignore that argument when calling the method? Why is it so hard to perform a relative import? Python is less consistent.
The other nice thing about Ruby is the elegance of it's closures and block passing - I miss that a lot when it's not present in other languages, and am always excited to see new(ish) languages like Kotlin embrace that paradigm. That, combined with the enumerable interface, make for great functional programming and list processing in Ruby. The alternatives in Python are certainly functional, but feel clunky to me.
On the other hand, Python has better semantics around named versus positional arguments, better type annotations, and decorators, each of which I would love to see in Ruby but for many reasons don't expect to. Python's import system allows more control over the global namespace, which is very nice. And lastly, Python has become the de-facto academic language which has led to it's fantastic ecosystem growth. Python is everywhere and there's a python driver or library for everything. Ruby has a good ecosystem, but not near as good as Python.
As for the bit about Node, the rise of Node and relative decline of Ruby are the same phenomenon, it was the full-stack web hipsters that had powered the rapid rise of Ruby moving onto Node that helped Node rise quickly as well. There were valid reasons, specifically 99% of Ruby developers also need to be proficient in Javascript, but the two languages are quite different, and many engineers felt (reasonably) that it would be nice to just pick one and have it work across the stack. Well, the browser doesn't run Ruby. Also, Node's evented model is a good fit for precisely the kind of IO-bound stuff that's a bit harder in Ruby.
But mostly, the hot-new-thing wave follows a pattern of enthusiastic adoption and evangelism, then over-adoption, followed by cynicism when the things that were built in hotlang don't scale up as well as their enthusiastic early adopters hoped, followed by the embrace of next hotlang and the trashing of *previous hotlang. So Ruby had to ride that out and calm back down into just being a normal programming language again. Meanwhile here comes Deno... ;)