Some ways NL is different:
- removal of parking spaces in urban centers (good luck doing that in the UK! People literally protest in the streets)
- large scale secure bike parking in train stations
- reliable and extensive rail network
- segregated bike paths between major towns and on majority of urban routes
- bike paths open to mobility assistance vehicles (independence for those too old to drive or with disabilities)
- one way and access only streets for motor traffic, walking and cycling is allowed / two way
- direct routes and bridges in urban areas reserved for walkers and cyclists, drivers must take long way around
- school buses replaced with guided cycling and cycle busses for children
- maintenance of cycle paths through winter (e.g. de-icing)
All of this creates spaces where people want to spend time, as opposed to more transactional journeys to out of town stores. The outcome is bustling high streets, cafe culture, etc. Children have some of highest independence and happiness scores in the world. Lower obesity and diseases of inactivity compared to most of developed world.