Unless people are getting paid directly in crypto, they are purchasing it from somewhere, and wherever that entry point is will have this problem.
While cryptos in of themselves are decentralized and inherently unregulatable, people forget that the interface with the real financial world is very much vulnerable.
You can’t buy it on Coinbase or many other exchanges, and the wallets are not as polished as the btc wallets I have used.
So if you’re trying to get your fans to pay you in XMR, you would be creating a lot of friction for them.
Maybe the state can find my addresses with a bit more effort than they can find my CC purchases but random people or friends and family not so much unless I want them to.
What I mean is if you ever send F&F money they'll see all your previous purchases too, and if OF is a well known wallet its easy for them to see that detail.
Or that no one would be able to properly use those payouts.