It's “terrifying” because hot honey is hot.
It sticks to you. It stays hot enough to burn you, while burning you, for an unintuitively long time. I've burned myself blacksmithing a few times and accidentally brushed red metal with a finger.
None of those burns have ever came close to the brilliant white hot, long lasting agony of molten sugar.
I’ve burned the shit out of myself making or eating mash potatoes before. Now I just take my time. No hurry to go from stove to bowl.