" I am not telling that there aren't bad books, but most likely the limiting factor to acquire the skills isn't lack of resources, but the rigor to sit and plod through one ( or couple) of the best resources that you have zero"
Ah, but there are books, just making you want to go tp sleep by just looking at them and some are able to spark passion (in me).
My point being, it is definitely about motivation and discipline, but a good didactic book, helps with that.
And since we are all different (types of lerners), there definitely isn't one book to rule them all. And its been a while since I studied from a book, but I could usually tell from skimmimg over a few pages, of whether this book can help me, or not.