Agreed. I would bet on a language like Elixir or F# being simpler to learn and grow for a complex system than a class-oriented-imperative-oop (Java, Ruby, Python, etc) language any day.
Elixir is also really great IMO. The pipeline composition is a really nice model. If adoption grows more the tooling should step up, because it's lacking a little. The language server can't do things like rename a function, there isn't a complete TreeSitter parser either. I also have this fear with actor model that I'm inadvertantly leaving some process dangle somewhere, which in my experience is not unjustified.