This seems to be the core problem in the communities, like you said: a tendency to believe that time spent learning the language or learning concepts or fighting with libraries or struggling with documentation doesn’t actually “count” towards time spent getting the job done.
I think this plays into our tendency to view learning and education as investments rather than costs. That may be true on a personal level when using your own time, but using your employer’s time to experiment with difficult new concepts and languages when you have a deadline approaching (or long since past) is not cool.