layperson = me.
I like to read Wikipedia and popularized stuff. The problem is I come away unsatisfied, because even the best writing directed at people who aren't good at math, is more about giving the feeling of understanding than actual understanding.
My point about bosons and fermions, is I read the summary on Wikipedia, but they are just labels to me. I don't have the intuition or math except that it says the one kind of thing can "overlap" in ways the other can't.
Richard Feynman's "QED: The Strange Theory of Light and Matter" has been much praised though. What did I get out of it? I guess that quantum mechanics has something to do with multiplying complex numbers.
I'm not sure exactly what I'm missing, but I get the impression that if I could understand Hamiltonians, Lagrangians, or variational calculus, then I would have some insight into modern physics.
Some of it sounds tantalizingly straightforward, but at the same time beyond my mental capacity - imagine a space, a field, etc. - but it's infinite-dimensional or something. Or it's a space of functions.
Still, on Wikipedia you can keep clicking on things - what's a "fiber bundle", etc.