> but once a system is in place
No, the GP was correct. As soon as any closed-source software implements automatic software updates, you've always one malicious update away from the system betraying you. Having "a system in place" for doing potentially evil things is unnecessary. Interim steps of any kind are unnecessary.
What Apple has done this week doesn't bring the iPhone closer or further to your hypothetical dystopia than it already was. Or Chrome, or Windows, or Android, etc. They update themselves. Every update your devices have done in the past decade could have betrayed you.
Anything that automatically updates is always one step away.