Who are the “everyone” in your first sentence? Being out of debt is a goal for most people — but it’s not true that it’s just as doable as it used to be, particularly in the United States.
Middle-class wages started falling behind in the Reagan-era, and a number of costs are more daunting than they used to be: education is both more a requirement and far more expensive than it was then, in many areas housing is hard for younger people to get into with a lack of affordable starter housing and commute costs are significant due to the transportation system having been rebuilt around expensive mostly single-user vehicles which spend 90% of the day idle (15% or more of the average American’s income). Healthcare costs are an especially American barrier to savings: far higher than anywhere else in the world, and they tend to carry over disproportionately to non-rich families — maybe you’re young and healthy, but you end up helping older relatives instead of saving or you inherit nothing when they die.
I’ve always lived well below my means but I’m also appreciative of how much that depended on advantages not everyone has. That can be small things (e.g. as a white male programmer, I didn’t have to spend many hours of work on business formal clothing as did many people I’ve known in various office and sales jobs) to big things: I became a homeowner with no family assistance at age 20 thanks to the dotcom economy - people I know who weren’t in tech at that point or who lived in a place like SF where public policy has favored keeping housing expensive instead spent years paying a higher percentage of their income in rent or paying significantly more time and money on long commutes.
I mention all of this because there’s a key factor to savings: a realistic chance of seeing real benefits from doing so. There are always people who are irresponsible or have problems but quite often when you see something you think is irresponsible there’s more going on than you might think. For example, I heard people of my father’s generation comment to the effect of “black people spend too much on their cars” – which was true from what they saw because the invisible part was redlining and less structural racism meant that they were competing for fewer houses and paying higher mortgage rates to do so, and if you are frozen out of the housing market a car is probably the biggest thing you can invest in.