Fortunately I have a cisco router and enough knowledge to block the 17.0.0.0/8 ip address range.
This combined with an openvpn vpn will block all apple services from my devices.
So basically my internet will look like this:
Internet <---> CISCO <---> ASUS ROUTER with openvpn <-> Network The cisco router will block the 17.0.0.0/8 ip address range and I will use spotify on all my computers.