In praise of habits
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>...habits are, simply, reliable solutions to recurring problems in our environment. - Jason Hreha [1]
>Whenever you face a problem repeatedly, your brain begins to automate the process of solving it. Your habits are just a series of automatic solutions that solve the problems and stressed you face regularly. - James Clear [1]
The point that was interesting about habits, to me, is that they are unconscious. So this means that you don't necessarily know that you even have them. And they guide a large part of your life. So, if you are not in a spot in life where you want to be, look at your habits... it takes some effort because they are unconscious... but then you can work on changing them.
The unconscious part is important too, though, in a good way. They are programs running in the background that allow you direct your attention to new things that you don't encounter often. Kind of cool when you think that humans have a way to auto-program an auto-pilot for things they encounter often, so that the brain can be better prepared for new things.
[1] https://newsletter.butwhatfor.com/p/habits-maketh-the-man
I sort of agree - it reads like a literature review converted to an article. But still, pleasantly readable IMHO without much prior knowledge.
I don't think that lack of habit formation is necessarily a bad thing, making something a habit is good if that something is good, but bad if you learn things that are wrong. Meaning I'd argue that people who are worse at forming habits are likely better at rethinking their beliefs and theories.
Definitely a significant part of my case. Until I started using a smart watch to walk me through morning and night routines, I had no routines. I generally don’t have regular habits which makes maintaining basic life stuff difficult at times.
This might be a silly question, but what does that mean in practice? I don't think I have what can be called morning or night routine (other than "go to bed when sleepy" and "get up, shower and go to work") but I also can't think why I'd need more than that.
It was published on a psychology website.
One of the big takeaways from it for me was how its more difficult to break a habit than to "reprogram it". He does this by describing the three steps of the habit loop, the cue, action, and reward. To save you having to read the whole book I think this article does a good job of distilling the essentials[2], though the book was still a really interesting read if you have the time.
[1] https://charlesduhigg.com/the-power-of-habit/
[2] https://www.healthline.com/health/mental-health/habit-loop
I now have separate journals for habits, tasks, time keeping, and praise. I just use cheap notebooks.
None of the apps I've tried have worked for me. Reminds me of the wisdom: don't expect personal finance software to inspire you to balance your checkbook if don't already.
Carrying around notebooks feels more immediate; like a physical reminder that can't be ignored.
Ad hoc dot journaling for habits. A bit like Seinfield's "don't break the chain".
Tasks are a work in progress. Aspire to bullet journaling techniques.
My time tracking sucks. This is where I think an app could be most useful. Especially by stamping my location onto each log entry.
Praise journal is part of the mindfulness stuff. Just write down the good bits of each day.
I wouldn't attribute this to an added dimension of intelligence because I see two "unintelligent" habits at play here. The first habit is the route you take to work and knowing which streets to take and what intersections to turn on. The second is your driving skills. "Intelligently" adjusting to situational intricacies like how fast the driver in front of you is going doesn't seem intelligent because it's just a reflex of an experienced driver. Put the two together and that's how you make it to work on autopilot.
There's something really beautiful about habits being both intelligent and unintelligent (or neither). If you invest your attention on habits while performing them, there's an opportunity to observe what you do effortlessly and (slowly, with time and energy) improve/evolve already highly involved activities. Eventually your habits are improved and yet again, effortless. You definitely see this in sports, but lots of examples in all the things humans do.