The lack of associativity is still a problem. If 2021-02-28 + 1 month = 2021-03-28,then (2021-02-28 + 1 month) + 1 month = 2021-03-28 + 1 month = 2021-04-28. While if I ask what is 2021-02-28 + 2 months (given 2021-02-28 + 1 month = 2021-03-31), most people would say 2021-04-30.
While I am not entirely sold on using awkward/"honest" names by default, the author does raise a good point: sometimes concepts are inherently messy or full of important edge cases, and we shouldn't just brush that aside.
I recently ran into a similar problem. I am implementing a distributed lock (https://www.joyfulbikeshedding.com/blog/2021-05-19-robust-di...) -- like a mutex, but works across processes and machines. I try to mimic the language's standard Mutex API as much as possible.
A normal Mutex has a query method named "owned?" to check whether the calling thread owns the mutex. When I tried implementing this method for my distributed lock, it raised a question: owned according to who? Owned according to the local state that represents the lock, or according to the state that lives in the server? Because they can differ (e.g. due to bugs in other clients or because an admin manually messed with the state). So I opted for "honest names" here too and implemented two methods: "owned_according_to_local_state?" and "owned_according_to_server_state?"