Folks out there who don’t want to learn the ins and outs of database theory - please don’t; read up on it, it’s a very important skill & knowledge to have and doesn’t take long to master. It does take a few days, perhaps weeks, for all the ideas to “click” in your head.
Whilst we having many fads in IT, there are certain sound principles of computer science developed over 40-50 years which one should learn :-) Know the rules before you break them!