When you don't have a remote third party (the capitalist) involved in your transactions, things are simpler.
You can just ask: is the person I'm doing business with creating more problems than they solve? And then not do business with them if the answer is yes.
If you acknowledge property rights that justify the involvement of capitalists in your transaction, you now have to also ask the same question of them and weigh those answers against the first. It's much harder to figure out who's agenda you're furthering with your money--so most people just don't bother. Both parties blame this abstraction that hangs over their business and neither takes responsibility for its consequences.
The invisible hand ends up being a scapegoat and nothing changes.
Reasonable legislation that sets the right incentives works. But it's difficult to get passed when entrenched interests are against it. The problem isn't capitalism, the problem is the industry influence on politics that prevents reasonable legislation.
By the way, Noam Chomsky uses the phrase “really existing capitalism today” to talk about the system we’ve ended up with.
I don’t have any options with regard to how I get to and from work nor how I hear and cool my home.
Is that directly your fault, or am I right to place a fair chunk of the blame on the source of that denial?
Now there are vastly more of us, and we have a lot better tools to do damage with.
Floods are prevented, or mitigated, not by single raindrops, but by chaotic systems on a much larger scale, and / or infrastructure projects raindrops have little to no ability to action.
Humans need leaders to rally behind, and what we’ve had for too long, and likely will have for longer still, is wet dishcloths masquerading as leaders.
We have glass bottles, we have compostable plastic, a company is not incentivized to lose profit by switching to more expensive alternatives until it becomes illegal to not do so and they have more lobbying power than any of us.