In that case you need to look harder, our outside your current area. I'm from Jersey, $200k salary should give you lots of options especially in central or south Jersey.
Ever consider people have families? Have families they're planning on having?
Yeah, moving to central or South Jersey wouldn't work. That's why I live where I do now ...
Keep preaching from that ivory tower of yours
I swear, everyone posting with "BUT I CAN AFFORD IT" is absolutely tone deaf to the US housing crisis we're in.
(But man, have things changed. I grew up in central Jersey in the 80s, and back then no one of any means wanted to live across the Hudson from Manhattan. Nuts to see that now many people are priced out of that area.)