> What I want to know is, when are automated provers gonna be useful for thickies like me?
Note that automated theorem provers is not the same as proof assistant. With ATPs you delegate most of the work to some proof search, whereas with proof assistants the human drives most of the work (which is more manual but lets you tackle much more complex and undecidable domains).
> Right now there's mathematica, which can be useful but won't really do stuff on its own - it'll rearrange an equation but I can't ask it "prove this is increasing".
The problem with Mathematica (and others) it is both unverified and proprietary, so if your work relies on it you are depending on a huge trusted code base not having mistakes (extremely unlikely).
I recently took an undergraduate course on real analysis, and was able to formalize quite a bit (within reason) from the class in Coq[0]. In fact, it even aided my reasoning, for instance I wasn't ensure the following inequality was true, but Coq made quick work of it.
Lemma test2 :
forall (x y z d : R),
Rabs (z - y) < d ->
Rabs (x - z) < Rabs (z - (y - d)) ->
Rabs (x - z) < Rabs (z - (y + d)) ->
Rabs (x - y) < d.
Proof. intros; split_Rabs; lra. Qed.
> Or there are these high level systems for proving deep theorems. Is anyone trying to fill the gap?
There's ongoing work on computable real numbers for instance the CoRN library[1], so hope is on the horizon, for instance, a recent update to the Coq Interval package adds certified plotting, that is, the library guarantees that if a function passes through a pixel, that pixel is filled[2]. There's also the user-friendly Coquelicot[3] real analysis library up to basic differential equations (e.g. Bessel function).
> It'll rearrange an equation but I can't ask it "prove this is increasing"
For a taste, here's my proof that the cube function is increasing[4]. If I wanted to create a tactic that automatically proves a function is increasing, I would use properties of increasing functions[5] to recursively break it down into trivial subcases.
[0] https://github.com/siraben/math-3100/blob/master/analysis.v
[1] https://github.com/coq-community/corn
[2] https://coq.discourse.group/t/interval-4-2-now-with-plotting...
[3] https://hal.inria.fr/hal-00860648v1/document
[4] http://ix.io/3rxD
[5] https://www.math24.net/increasing-decreasing-functions#h-pro...