The thought experiment is this, if we discovered a vastly superior method of communication, we would probably switch over and abandon light. And if we turned this new 'dish' towards space and found thousands of civilizations communicating... why would we ever try to communicate with EM in space ever again?
This means that the time each civilization spends trying to communicate with EM is the time between discovering EM comms and the 'new' mechanism. The number of current alien civilizations communicating in EM are just those currently in that band, and the ratio of alien civilizations doing EM is the (average duration of this band) to the (average age of a civilization).
It would be like a civilization currently on earth, only at the level of smoke signals, trying to determine if there are other civilizations by looking for smoke on the horizon.