Or when X needs to be done but instead all the comments hector the question with useless criticism.
Or when X needs to be done but instead all the comments hector the question with useless criticism.
If there truly is a circumstance which makes X the right solution, then that might warrant a new question being posted with the additional context to make that so. But I suspect it's much more often the case that the asker is simply being stubborn and doesn't want to change their plans.
Obviously not the ones making the “why are you $X” comments in this case though.
Obviously it's possible for non-experts to post authoritative-sounding answers on questions that they don't really understand, but I think that is a different category of problem from the "XY-problem" style answers.
But the answer to the question "How to do X?" really shouldn't include more than a passing reference to "Here's how to do Y." If X is impossible, then that is of course the answer.
And as others have indicated, the most frustrating scenario that happens over and over is that once the "How to do X" question is asked, you can never get an answer to that question if the original poster relents and agrees that what they really need is an answer to "how to do Y?".
Would you be willing to be responsible for the fallout of answering that question any other way besides "use parameterized queries instead"? Do you really think that should only be mentioned as a passing reference?
And since every question about such things get auto corrected to use parameters (which doesn't help, since it's something else entirely), You have millions of buggy self glued sql queries allover code bases. (but hey most of them are using parameters, so yay - progress)
And the passing reference to the potential misuse here can be a big bold statement at the top of your answer.
But yes, it can be a lonely game :)
And if you are really trying to solve Y, it's not hard to specify that in your question (I know I can solve X without solving Y, but I don't want to solve X, I want is to solve Y in this case). I wouldn't say "there's nothing worse" than that; it's a minor inconvenience.
Then either: I do know what I'm doing, and my explanation satisfies people, and they try to work on Y, or: it turns out I was indeed wrong, and I should have solved X some other way.
Either way it's a win for me (if anyone bothers to answer the question).
But it can be hard for either new people, or people who don't know the domain well enough to even know that it could be an XY problem.