I've written Node.js/Javascript/TypeScript for the past 5-years and my last few projects have been Laravel just because of how damn easy it is. I've used Next.js, Gatsby, [insert flavor of the month here], but nothing has stood the test of time like PHP has. I never had a PHP server die on me because of a lost network connection. I never had a PHP server kill thousands of connections because of one error. I never was 4 versions behind a framework because it changes every fucking week. PHP never had me deploy a Kubernetes cluster with seven thousand pods and monitoring systems just to stay alive.
Node.js is a horrible programming language with a worse package system and anyone who thinks otherwise hasn't had the privilege to work with something else.
You also seem to have a vendetta against me. You okay?
Likewise I think someone starting up for themselves is more likely to be a React programmer than a PHP programmer.
I also think it's damned near impossible to find React developers who are capable of doing anything that isn't React flavored.
For those reasons alone, I'd choose PHP over React, especially if I want to scale.
As someone who ran a company for 5+ years on a Node.js stack, never again.
Before when I managed 5k+ servers running PHP, I actually slept at night knowing nothing was suddenly going to go wrong because of some stupid memory consumption bug or exploit in a popular and critical package.