In case it was not clear in my analogy a "penny" (it can be anything solid and incompressible) is representative of a water molecule. If you want to compare the pressures of stacks of pennies and quarters because for some reason you are fixated in these specific physical coins rather than what they represent then I will make it explicit. Imagine pennies represent water and quarters represent mercury. Two different liquids, two different coins, two different pressures. I don't get what you guys don't get.
Can you explain to me why you think it is intuitive that the downward pressure of a liquid at the bottom of a container should vary for equal depths but different volumes? E.g. you seem to intuitively think that if you have a big pan filled with 1 inch of water the water pressure at the bottom of the pan is greater than the pressure at the bottom of a 50 ml flask also filled with one inch of water. This is false but I am interested as to why you and the others think it is "intuitive?" Where does the additional force come from to increase the pressure in the bigger pan? Gravity pulls straight down.