A related thing that really turned me off in the early days was one of the main developers constantly criticizing other languages. That wouldn't be so bad by itself, but much of it was uninformed, and it told me at least one of the core devs was not going to learn from other languages. There was always an attitude that "I know what to do, unlike everyone else".
The reason I never moved heavily into Julia was that it was too easy to write slow code (back then, things may have changed) relative to compiled languages like Fortran. Maybe I'd have stuck with it longer if I found the community to be pleasant, but an unstable and often slow language plus an unpleasant core developer was more than I was willing to put up with.