Maybe in Eastern Europe or something but most of Western Europe has no such problem, especially in the North.
> The netherlands is one of the few places where avoiding cars is an actual option, elsewhere it requires heavy compromission, and imposes significant restrictions on various life choices.
Not even close to true in Scandinavia, Belgium, Germany or even poor ass Portugal.
I'm not sure how you got to these conclusions. Maybe you're underestimating just how bad the US as a European is or maybe you've never lived in Europe.