Are you always on all topic in a minority? If yes then maybe is your way of communicating.
Still you need to find a subreddit with rules like:
- comments only on topic
- no personal attacks, only critique the content
- always provide sources when providing some information as a fact
- no lazy comments like me too, memes, jokes,
When you find such a subreddit then do a bit of work and report comments and threads that are breaking the rules and of-course respect the rules.
I wish HN would have such rules, you could have lazy comments, bad jokes, aggressive comments, information without a source removed.