Sony WH-1000XM4 (or the slightly older WH-1000XM3)
Many of my friends and colleagues have bought them after my recommendation (my colleagues and I use the 16" MBP) and all have had a fantastic experience
The top alternative that I'm aware of is Bose's noise cancelling headphones but I haven't tried them myself
Edit: this is the video that sold me on the Sony headphones: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bInJjmH31Hk