How to Expose Yourself to Randomness
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ben.casnocha.com
The rule is: If you see something interesting, perhaps a group of people you would like to talk or engage with, give your self at most 3 seconds to take action or else; don't do it.
Why 3 seconds? If you spend more time, you will start considering the consequences inhibiting yourself -- your freudian conscious guard is activited.
It stops me from doing anything truly stupid or rude, but doesn't restrict me from doing fun and interesting things.
1. Do fewer structured activities.
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19. You’re really pissed off at what’s going on in your kid’s school. So run for the school board.
Because really, that's the essence of it. We get so into spending our time wisely that we don't stop and look around. Rather than trying to follow the list, I'd recommend just doing things that you feel like doing, but normally wouldn't because they aren't something you'd normally do. (It's a self-reinforcing cycle.)