Gun homicide is 44 times less frequent in the Netherlands than in the US: 0.28 / 100K people, per annum in NL, compared to 12.21 in the USA.
So, a person getting shot dead is much more of an extreme event in the Netherlands (even disregarding the particular circumstances).
Statistic taken from here:
https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/gun-death...