https://www.fai.org/news/statement-about-karman-line
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S009457651...
etc
Also, when defining spaceflight, one could add an orbital velocity requirement - after all, a falling brick is not normally considered to be flying (even the phrase 'flying debris' implies some lateral motion.)
What counts is being able to persuade other people. It looks like the 80km faction is succeeding with the FAI.
Whether this definition is meaningful for a suborbital flight is debatable.
From the paper imglorp linked to: "in reality the von Karman criterion defines a line whose altitude varies with position and time (because of variations in atmospheric density due to solar activity) and with the lift coefficient of the spacecraft."
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S009457651...
arbitrary: "based on random choice or personal whim, rather than any reason or system"
It is not based on random choice or personal whim. It is the result of a systematic analysis of the relationship between the forces required to sustain flight.
You were disputing a post in which this was literally the only point I made: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=27801257
It's correct to state a boundary defined by centrifugal force dominance is somewhere between 80ish and 100ish km, and the specific number is somewhat arbitrary. It's not correct to say its for 20km (for example), which would be a truly random selection.