Matrix vs. XMPP
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This is just a fact of life for open-source open ecosystems.
Their compatibility chart ( https://matrix.org/clients-matrix/ ) shows that missing features are things like "rich text editing" or "typing notifications" -- whatever, I can live without them.
On the other hand, core XMPP is designed to drop messages if something happens (like if recipient is offline). You need to have a whole bunch of XEPs implemented to prevent message losses.
This is exactly why I recommend avoiding XMPP where possible -- messengers have one job, to reliably get message from point A to point B. If it is possible to end up with the situation of unreliable messages, maybe just don't use that protocol, use any of the many other alternatives.
So at this point, what does it matter in reality?
XMPP has an annually-updated baseline for compliance: https://xmpp.org/extensions/xep-0443.html