For proper HDR you need 1000+ nits. Only Apple monitors and a few very expensive alternatives can do this. On other monitors the gamut is compressed and there's little difference between the colors at the edges.
You can test your monitor with this https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=NlAsAuBtmps When it stops getting brighter, you've maxed out your display and it can't display the additional range.
For whatever reason TV tech is way better. Even cheap TVs tend to be brighter than the brightest PC monitors. If you have the space, a 40 inch TV sitting farther away will be far superior picture quality than a monitor