The only case where society actually does demand a man to get out of bed is jail.
Usually, a man gets out of bed not because he is dragged out like a pet but because society offers something in return -- employment, company, money, food, purpose, etc. He can stay in his bed if he really wants to, or he can choose a more flexible schedule and wake up later, or wake up earlier.
It's a system of symbiosis; the man is making a fucking choice.
Regarding 1+1=3, there are several possibilities here:
a) The people are mathematicians, they redefined symbols and are playing around -- it would evoke curiosity in me.
b) The people are children and they're getting a rise out of you -- it would evoke amusement in me.
c) The people are deluded and insane -- it would evoke sympathy.
I don't see how these possibilities require anyone to get aggressive.