Access is what matters.
Consider two groups of ten people. Group A consists of ten people, who each have a Ferrari. In this group, the average car is a Ferrari. But in Group B there are also ten people, one of them has ten Ferraris, nine others own a 2CV. In this group the average car is also a Ferrari.
But Group B's cars suck. 90% of people in Group B do not have access to the "average" of a Ferrari.
There are two elements to access and the US doesn't do great at either of them. One element is: Can you actually get a decent service? If the best service you could actually buy is a 2Mbps ADSL connection then, "No", you can't, even if your best friend has 1Gbps symmetric. The US is almost inevitably going to suck in this respect for some of its most rural residents, but nobody in a suburb let alone inside a city ought to be suffering this under a rational approach. Second element is: Can you afford decent service? Maybe 1Gbps is technically on offer in your neighbourhood, for the same price as your rent. Obviously you won't buy that. In some cases this is going to be impacted by other economic decisions. If your country's idea of a "living wage" doesn't include paying for Internet service then that's maybe a problem in 2021.