There's nothing overtly sexual about TSA patdowns, but I would not want to subject a kid of mine (if I had any) to TSA agents rubbing the back of their hands on their chests, legs, and tugging at their pants.
We don't know enough about the story to know just how belligerent the mother might have gotten, but TSA should offer some kind of special program for people that are frequent fliers, special needs, and flying with children that can skip such security measures and just go through the usual metal detector/bag xray if they opt-into background checks and such. I've flown a dozen roundtrips this year so far and have a flight in a couple hours I need to catch, and that would make me so much happier.
> Yelling at a TSA agent isn't one of the good ways.
There's just no great way to communicate with TSA so I can understand people wanting to take it out on the agents because they're right there, giving you lots of grief. At the same time, one has to realize the TSA agent is only doing his/her job. It's a lose-lose situation for everyone.
> I'm somewhat convinced that the new security measures don't really help much...
Every time I go through patdowns and realize that I never took my baggy of >3oz "medical" fluids and sprays out of my carryon luggage, I feel so safe.