I’ll start by assuming you’re in a first world country as Tinder is a first world dating app.
Drop tinder immediately and forget about dating women from your country. Something happened over the past 50 or so years and first world women’s standards have become unrealistically high. Maybe it was social media, or dating apps, who knows, but the fact is, the majority of them have adopted this “impress me” attitude where they view themselves as a prize, and they expect you to bring everything to the table. Dating them is no longer worth it, and they’re all pining after the top 10% of guys anyway.
But I’m not saying you need to go full MGTOW.
Instead, find a sincere woman from overseas who will appreciate you more than a first world woman ever could, bring her to your country, and marry her. You will both be happy.
I know someone who did this, and they are a very happy and successful couple.
Find a woman who will appreciate the love you have to give.