The High Cost of Divorce
theatlantic.com
theatlantic.com
Ten years later and I wanted to send my first wife a 'Ten-Year-Anniversary Thank-You card' for leaving me. But my second wife wouldn't let me. (Said it was 'a bit tacky'.)
The other surprising thing about costs was that my second wife's first husband took her to court for lots of stuff. My first wife and I had a fairly amicable divorce. But our lawyer's fees for the two divorces were practically the same.
If you think you need a divorce, just do it.
Old joke (very old): "Save 20 years of your life. Find a woman you hate and give her a house, some money, and a car."