Adam's post is rather more thorough and nuanced, which makes sense since he actually understands SSL and benchmarking. While you might summarize them both as "DHE is expensive", I don't know why you would. Here is each post on DHE:
Adam - "However, with a pure RSA ciphersuite, an attacker can record traffic, crack (or steal) your private key at will and decrypt the traffic retrospectively, so consider your needs."
Matt - "Unfortunately, it also includes a very computationally intensive cipher using an ephemeral Diffie-Hellman exchange for PFS. Sounds scary already, doesn't it?
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The problem cipher is DHE-RSA-AES256-SHA [b]."
The first is factual and straightforward. The second is muddled and clearly skewed towards blindly disabling DHE. I believe we are in agreement that it is irrelevant to almost everyone building on nginx: their connection rates are so low they will not notice the overhead introduced by DHE.
I am sniping at enthusiastic ignorance and encouraging others to behave similarly. I hope that is all quite clear now.
Hugs and kisses,
Lil' B