You’re missing a lot! In the case of a simple request/response web app yes it doesn’t do a whole lot. Imagine you’re building a complex system with lots of different behavior patterns. Let’s say a backend that fans out to 100 different 3rd party APIs, like a shipping aggregator that needs to talk UPS, FedEx, USPS, Canada Post, Royal Mail, etc… and you want to be able to carefully control rate limits, batch sizes, etc.. to those endpoints. An actor system with supervision trees is a very good way to build a system like this.
Also... the rhetoric here on HN about Erlang/Elixir vs. Kube really needs to stop. People are misinformed. They are not mutually exclusive, you do not need to choose one or the other. We need to reconcile that because the discourse always goes to this weird war in the comments.